Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man
should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every
beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the
man to see what he would call them. And
whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. The man gave names to all livestock and to the
birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper
fit for him. So the Lord God caused
a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and
closed up its place with flesh. And the
rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and
brought her to the man. (Gen. 2:18-22 ESV).
Male and female are complementary to each other. Only the male/female pair reproduce. A masculine man brings certain qualities to a
marriage (1 man + 1 woman 4 LIFE) and a feminine woman brings other
characteristics that make a marriage work.
When Adam named the animals he noticed the male-female pairing. Where was Adam’s compatible and complementary female counterpart? Adam believed in complementarianism, not gay marriage.
Genesis continues, “Therefore a man shall leave his
father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one
flesh (Gen. 2:24).
A man leaves his Father
and Mother. Neither father & father nor mother & mother
constitute parents. Same sex couples do
not become one flesh. Only the male/female pair can do this.
Robert Reilly has written a fascinating book on the
morality of same-sex relationships, Making
Gay Okay: How Rationalizing Homosexual Behavior Is Changing Everything. Reilly has shown that a reasonable man or
woman can understand that same-sex couples are ethically incorrect.
In 2009, President Barack Obama held a meeting to
celebrate the gay rights movement. Obama
said this about alternative lifestyle activist Franklin Kameny, “We are proud
of you, Frank, and we are grateful to you for your leadership.” [1] Kameny said the following in 2008:
Let us have more and better enjoyment of the more and
better sexual perversions, by whatever definition, by more and more consenting
adults… If bestiality with consenting
animals provides happiness to some people, let them pursue their
happiness. That is Americanism in
action. [2]
In Plato’s Laws,
the Athenian states his position:
…our citizens must not be worse than fowls and many other
animals which are produced in large broods, and which live chaste and
celibate lives without sexual intercourse until they arrive at the age for
breeding; and when they reach this age they pair off, as instinct moves
them, male with female and female with male; and thereafter they live in a way
that is holy and just, remaining constant to their first contracts of love:
surely our citizens should at least be better than these animals.
In Book 1 of Plato’s Laws,
the Athenian affirms,
…I think that the pleasure is to be deemed natural which
arises out of the intercourse between men and women; but that the intercourse
of men with men, or of women with women, is contrary to nature, and that
the bold attempt was originally due to unbridled lust. The Cretans are always
accused of having invented the story of Ganymede and Zeus because they
wanted to justify themselves in the enjoyment of unnatural pleasures…
Philosopher Immanuel Kant proposed his Categorical
Imperative: If it’s right, it’s right
for all. If gay is good and all
practiced that maxim, then there would be no more babies. Kant rejected homosexual conduct.
Pleasure is indeed part of marriage (Song of
Solomon). But worshipping pleasure is a
vain pursuit. The Pleasure Principle can
lead to destruction. Consider the parable of Sam & Dave. Sam and Dave are very good friends. Sam loves to hit Dave in the head with a
baseball bat. Dave loves to hit Sam in
the head with a baseball bat. They
practice this habitual pleasure for many years.
Sam & Dave never become one
flesh (1 Cor. 6:16).
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this
is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment
with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in
the land.” (Eph. 6:1-3 ESV)
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit
the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither
the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice
homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor
swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But
you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. (1 Cor.
6:9-11 ESV)
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Notes:
1) Making Gay Okay: How Rationalizing
Homosexual Behavior Is Changing Everything by Robert Reilly (Ignatius
Press, 2014), p. 3.
2) Ibid., p. 4.
Children in alternative
lifestyle families often have a number of issues [2]:
